A small hotfix patch , to fix some issues with total conquest balance

fixed war wave timing to be a little less aggresive in total conquest
fixed that enemy fortresses dont' spawn until your settlement is large enough to handle them
fixed a bug where if you put down the naval command harbor during combat it wouldn't recognize it and unlock the flagship control
fixed an error when rockets where flying but their mother turret got destroyed
prevented a unit from friendly firing on a fleetmate and getting retailiated by the fleet.